They have come together to appear on the show as a family for the first time. For a family Mai Sukunthawa Which today brings DJ Tone Surapong Jetsunton Husband and two children, Nong China and Nong Cheetah. He first appeared in the middle of the Hot Talk Show on Channel One 31
Children's development How are you?
Mai: “Hurry up. The little boy's development is fast. Then he said something we didn't think he would say. Because we haven't taught him yet.”
Toon “As they said he's grown up. You don't have to have a father.”
Why do they communicate this way?
New “I don't understand either. But New was stunned. I felt tears flowing in his eyes and what he said was mom do you love me China loves you mom are you happy with me? I want mom to be happy. I will do everything to make mom happy. And when we buy him toys “It's a riddle, he'll build it and then he'll say, 'Hey, I'm building a house for my mom. I'm going to drive the car for my mom.' So it makes us feel like a 3-year-old or 3-month-old can talk without us knowing.”
Then he said his father was grateful too. Because there was one day my father went to work and came back tired. He told his father that he was a father. Why don't you go to the temple? Is this correct?
New “(laughs) This really is.”
tons “It's like this. That day, I wanted to feel the same as he said to his mother. But when I came back, my father was in tears, and I went to live in the temple. Father went to live with Preet in the Sothat Temple. Because my father likes to snore and likes to scold me.”
At home there is a fight over the mother. Everyone wants love from their mother?
“May” means that May gives the same amount of love. When you want to sleep again, you have to sleep in the middle. The new is just waiting. Regarding your child's love, it is very uneven. Because we are used to having feelings like brothers. He must be left-handed, Ayman. This person will take away the mother. I feel like we are the most beautiful Miss Thailand in the world. We have to carry our partner so that he does not feel inferior. It does not matter if this person was born before “or after.”
It's not just children who want a mother. But daddy wants mommy too?
Ton: “The child does not want me to go near his mother. This is not my mother. As long as he is asleep then he will chase me away. I immediately went to live with my mother.”
Is it because my father doesn't have time? Makes the child very attached to his mother?
Ton: “Actually, I spend a lot of time with my family. Like a normal day, it's full. For example, on Fridays, I go home before 5:00 PM on Saturday and Sunday. If it's not necessary, I won't accept the job I will be with him completely. But I feel that May communicated fully. Then the child knew that he was in his mother’s belly. Why didn’t she let my father take a bath? He was crying now. Why? “You allow my father to give you a bath? My feelings towards China. As for the cheetah, I feel that he is connected to his father.”
May “Actually, Patton has full time for his children. But because we have to look at it from another perspective, it is the mother who takes care of her child 24 hours a day. We do not have a nanny. He should naturally relate to his mother. He received full warmth from what I did from Postpone it.
Will he feel that his mother loves me? I replied that I love you, my child. So why doesn't my mother give me a bath? Why did he allow his father to bathe him? But Mai will teach his children to love everyone. It's not just about loving your dad when you have toys. Otherwise, he will remember that he only loves his father when he has toys.”
Does China love its father?
China: “I don't love you.”
Were you ever hurt that he said that?
Ton “I was so upset that I cried. One day, there was an incident recently, he was playing with a glow stick that his mother asked for, and it was a win. And then the blood would flow. So I turned on the light. I'm going to bed then. In short, it was blood He fully knew he was wrong. He said, Father, come on, I don't love my father, I only love him. So I felt like why would my child say that?
Mai “We have not taught our children to love their mother because their mother raised them. Can children be taught? Because if he feels anything, that is what he feels. But we only have to do it because we have to love our father. Father is good to us. This matter must It will be up to him.”
tons “China and the cheetah have different last names. Since China does a lottery, we have a surname lottery to decide which surname to use. But whatever surname he uses, it's our baby.”
The answer is already ready. If I grow up, they'll ask me why we use different nicknames?
NEW “Yes. At first, some people had drama about why they had to do the last name lottery. It may seem like splitting the last names, father and mother, but in reality, the children, no matter their surname, are our children. We didn't want to turn it around To drama. Whatever you think, it's up to you. We're comfortable that way.”
Recently, your younger brother was about to join a school with tuition fees costing millions?
Ton “Well, I also cried again. That is, open the door. The president said one word. You have to pay in installments. At that time, we felt that we want to achieve for our children. Because we ourselves are from the provinces and learned English in the fifth grade, we want our children to study internationally. It's our best dream.
The school was close to home. We did not know the tuition fees, but we saw the sheikhs. Celebrities go to school together. There's Bee Beach, and the Beans send their kids there. When we got there he said I'm sorry because there is no discount the actors and actresses pay full price. But this means that we consulted together.”
Mai “At first, Mai didn't want me to study here. Mai wants to study in temple school. Because Mai studied in temple school before. Therefore, we feel that our potential from studying in temple school to become good people has potential. Study with honors is able They had to integrate into society so we felt like we were wasting their money too.
I don't want him to work tired every day. And take money to pay tuition fees and your child may not want the tuition fees to be expensive. But it is up to the parents to teach them how competent they are. But because he's the one paying we can't talk. Well, it's up to him.”
tons “Ask me, is the price high? Compared to what was obtained, it was reasonable and almost effective. Let them study in the same school.”
What is the specified limit? One person per study until graduation?
Ton “Well, right now I don't dare spend any money at all. Because I sat down and wrote down each child's expenses. On average, each child will have 18-20 expenses, multiply that by two. This does not include summer classes, clothing costs, and language fees “So we can understand parents more.”
Since I had my first child, do we plan to raise our children?
NEW “Yes, if anyone looks at the new background I won't have a mother. But the person I call my mother today is my father's older sister. She will be the new aunt they raised. So Mai called her mother instead. She is the mother who gave birth to a newborn who had never before It's like a face and now May feels like we want to raise her with love and warmth and connection so I feel like it's better for us to raise ourselves. Let me tell you that it's more than just being tired today. It's like a bipolar mood swing. It's not because we're abnormal “It is that the baby will laugh soon. The baby will cry soon, so we cannot adapt quickly.”
So how do you manage your emotions?
New “In fact, if you ask about ferocity every day, you might feel ferocious every day until you get used to it.” May is also a bigger hitter than Phi Tontee. If he was new, he wouldn't hit him unless he did something wrong. Play with your feet Throw or throw toys What type of menopause mood will he like? It will teach May a lot about ethics. Real fear will be afraid of toon every now and then he will be scolded and beaten is beaten. She will tell Mai Tun that he will scold him, let him beat him, but he will be afraid that his child will not love him. Otherwise, Mai would feel that he would not dare to be cruel. I don't dare hit my child.”
Toon “He'll know if he did something wrong. He'll apologize. And I said I didn't mean it.”
Father and Mother China Who is the most fierce?
China: “Daddy is fierce, I love my mother more.”
Mai: “If we compare, Mai says that Mai is more fierce than Patton. Because in this way, he wouldn't be fierce at all. And when he saw his father he was fierce. So he felt more shocked. Elder Toon was a big spoiler for his children when they were kids, they bought them brand names “And we ourselves will tell him not to create wrong values for our children because they can only wear them once. He has already grown up.”
Has raising children made the couple less romantic to the point of separating the bedrooms?
Ton “Yes, because I snore too. Another part is that at night I have to talk to foreign countries too. Sometimes he is afraid to disturb the baby. So Mei found the solution by letting him sleep in another room. I snore so much that I was afraid To die too.
NEW “Actually the real reason for this is something that bothers the baby as well. If he snores and then talks about work, the baby may wake up, likes to go out to look for food at night, and eating late at night means we feel tired. If the baby has to wake up “We have to convince. The other thing is that we also need to rest. If they come in and open and close, we feel that we cannot relax so we agreed on separate rooms.”
Ton: “When I first heard it, I felt like I was in an abyss. Why not let the baby sleep in a playpen? But we felt that one day when we were sleeping, he was snoring loudly. We are still in shock about what happened. I turned to look at my baby and my wife. He asked The child asked his father what was the problem, so we gave in. In the end, he wanted us to get enough rest and wish us well.”
Once you separate the bedrooms, how do you find time to manage your relationship?
May “Mai is a woman who is not sweet at all. And I never managed relationships much at all. He would be new, he would be a constant person. Nothing was ever given to him. Well, there is no such thing. I never spoke kindly, no matter how nice I was, I was a person “He was not mean or cruel. We don't express ourselves like that. We love him and care about him. We asked for rice to eat. I'm more worried about him in our own way.”
I saw that I bought a sample house. But crush it until there is nothing left. why are you doing that?
New “We are people who fully believe in feng shui. I am a person with a fairly strong Moo line. This method is good, this method is not good. Try to do everything to make his four money and our money as well. I want him to have good feng shui. Including health People at home You also have to pay a lot. That is, the new belief in the teacher is very one, so why would Mai reject him? He is someone we respect and can show us the way. So we did not reject what he suggested. We will do well “
Look at the warm family. But there is the issue of getting a divorce?
Ton “On that day, after 8 days, I was kicked out of the house with my mother. My mother and I came with me on Christmas Day. Coming from other provinces, my mother asked me: Can you handle it? Take a new place and feel comfortable. Then the mother will come and help raise the grandchildren.” “If you're going to get divorced, get divorced so we can cover our expenses.”
“New” is probably hormonal mood swings. On that day there were many quarrels. P'Ton doesn't speak to me well either. I will not and will not like things that speak badly, or loud voices, or impatience, or rude words. We hear things we don't like. We blew a fuse. We take speaking up seriously. The words were full of emotional ups and downs, and there was a big fight. Then I decided to divorce, so I got divorced. And we didn't even care that I was sure I was smart and strong enough to raise my child. It is strong enough for divorce. “Just leave the house, you can go out. We didn't feel comfortable at that time.”
Toon: “I know his mood adapts to his swing. That day, I took out my things and put them in my bag. I told myself that if I said just one sentence, I would leave the house and wait for the signal, but that day he didn't say anything.”
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